{"id":5839,"date":"2021-01-28T16:49:30","date_gmt":"2021-01-28T16:49:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/etereman.com\/remanu\/?p=5839"},"modified":"2021-01-28T16:50:33","modified_gmt":"2021-01-28T16:50:33","slug":"same-mistakes-thrice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/etereman.com\/remanu\/2021\/01\/28\/same-mistakes-thrice\/","title":{"rendered":"Same Mistakes Thrice"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"5839\" class=\"elementor elementor-5839\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-section-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1233816 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1233816\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-36ffaf6\" data-id=\"36ffaf6\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b670b12 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"b670b12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"350\" src=\"https:\/\/etereman.com\/remanu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/ru493.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-5840\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/etereman.com\/remanu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/ru493.png 700w, https:\/\/etereman.com\/remanu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/ru493-300x150.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9c32db0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9c32db0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p>It\u2019s all well and good to make mistakes and then learn from them. But sometimes we make the same mistakes over and over again. And sometimes, even though we\u2019re aware we\u2019re making those mistakes, we still do it. Anyone who\u2019s ever questioned their repeated taste in romantic partner can throw me an amen!<\/p><p>Tonight, after getting home from a family dinner, I realized that I left something out that my dog always, always eats when I\u2019m gone: my chapstick. (I threw the emptied container away in secret knowing I\u2019d let everyone down \u2013 myself, my dog, my husband who just bought a new one\u2026) I\u2019m allergic to most chapsticks, and this is the one item I feel like I always need to have. And Hattie, my old hound, has the same need. She\u2019s eaten it out of its tub not once, not twice, sigh, and more than thrice. Why haven\u2019t I learned not to leave this out?<\/p><p>Like good habits, bad habits happen for the same reason. Because of repetition, our brain creates comfortable, well-worn pathways for our neurons to travel when making a decision. As we approach a decision, our mind is set up for us to go ahead and date that kind of person even though we know deep down it\u2019s going to be a disaster \u2013 again.<\/p><p>I make mistakes in my work a lot. I&#8217;m okay with that. Often, it\u2019s because I insist I will learn from my mistakes and simply not make them again \u2013 best intentions and all that. Well, the actual work habits I have make it challenging for me to avoid these small future mistakes sometimes. Our processes and practices feel comfortable and even though we might know better, there we go again, falling into that habit and seeing ourselves miss that detail again, not follow up after the meeting again, and always hit that same button even though it makes my computer freeze every time. Why! WHHY!!!<\/p><p>It\u2019s not enough to know and try to avoid the mistake. The real trick is to change your process completely. Find a new place for the keys you always lose. Spend 5 minutes after each meeting on follow-up activities even though you want to get up and stretch. Take notes before a conversation with someone who intimidates you so you have some prepared thoughts (and avoid being haunted before bed on the things said badly and those left unsaid).<\/p><p>Approach your mistake not from what you did before and how you can learn from it, but instead from a completely new perspective. This way you can create a NEW good habit and not fall accidentally back into your bad one. I realize where I keep my chapstick obviously isn\u2019t working. And just buying a new one each time my dog does this isn\u2019t solving the problem. Here we go again. Maybe I need to find a new product, a new place, AND a new routine.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2478912 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"2478912\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figure class=\"wp-caption\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/etereman.com\/remanu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/hattie-300x300.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium wp-image-5842\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/etereman.com\/remanu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/hattie-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/etereman.com\/remanu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/hattie-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/etereman.com\/remanu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/hattie-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/etereman.com\/remanu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/hattie-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/etereman.com\/remanu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/hattie-800x800.jpg 800w, https:\/\/etereman.com\/remanu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/hattie.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figcaption class=\"widget-image-caption wp-caption-text\">Hattie wants a treat.<\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s all well and good to make mistakes and then learn from them. 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