The peace that comes from a comfortable silence is almost euphoric. Found in the moments of quiet when all the pieces have fallen into place and the world around you offers no worries. Uncomfortable silence makes us think, it makes us question reality and think deeper than we’ve ever dared to wonder. Still, the silence […]
Read MoreWhy is the sky blue, and the grass green? Why can’t I hit my baseball in the house, but the baseball players can play inside? Why do cats meow? And my personal favorite, provided by my son at a much younger age, “Why can’t I lick the dog, if he licks me”. If you have […]
Read MoreLove doesn’t have to be loud. It doesn’t have to be grand gestures, expensive gifts, or even daily confirmations. Love is found in our intentional interactions, our given respect, and it is felt even when it goes silent and intangible. Love may feel like an odd word to use when describing how leaders manage and […]
Read MoreMagic is intentional. It is designed and nurtured to ensure its effects are not just seen, but felt within your soul. Magic is not happenstance, it is bred, instilled, and demanded by those that promise an extraordinary experience. Magic is simply a version of reality that outperforms your original expectation. The magic is in the […]
Read MoreMan has a dream, and that’s the start. He follows his dream with mind and heart. And when it becomes a reality,It’s a dream come true for you and me. (Sherman & Sherman, 1964) Progress is more like an exciting, potentially fear-inducing roller coaster filled with twists and turns, and peaks and valleys, than the […]
Read MoreXander turned the big 1-3 this past weekend. Dedicated Reman U readers may remember him as the “The Worm Beckoner”, or “The Rubix Cube Solver”. But to me he’ll always just be my baby. As the youngest, even within our blended family, he’s a little spoiled, a lot loved, and mostly just plain funny. […]
Read MoreA futile use of time and a misuse of money. Displaced effort, resources, rooms left barren. What a waste! But to whom? Not to the person spending the cash, or investing the hours. Not to the one expending the blood, sweat, and tears. Not if they have found meaning and significance within the endeavor. Finding […]
Read MoreThe room is full of your peers, direct reports, customers and management, they have all gathered to hear your spiel. You have practiced this pitch day in and day out, you are prepared, confident, and ready to make a name for yourself. Every hair is in place, the slide deck is flawless, you enter the […]
Read MoreThe baker, painter, the candlestick maker. The fixer, the writer, and even the builder, have all faced failure. No matter if the job has been done hundreds of times, it is inevitable that even the most experienced professional will find themselves eye to eye with defeat at some point along the way. You use the […]
Read MoreIf money is the root of all evil, then it surely makes sense that the devil is in the details. It’s not about what you sell, rather it’s how you sell it, support it, and stand apart that takes the books from an infernal red to a glorious green. As a consumer, you can buy […]
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